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Hi guys. This sounds pretty dangerous! Bulgarian women wanting more than just coffee? I know you guys would never go that far! Stop them before it's too late!
My Bulgarian wife and I have been married for 6 years. And some of your descriptions of Bulgarian women (e.g. the home maker part) don't really apply to her. The career thing is actually pretty strong in her case. So either these impressions are inaccurate or my wife is an exception.
I meet many foreigners with Bulgarian wifes, but not that many foreign women with Bulgarian husbands. Does anyone have a scientific explanation for this phenomenon?
I have an explanation - it's mostly men outside Bulgaria who are unhappy with what the local women have to offer; these same women don't care about anything else but money. It should be quite clear then that BG men can't be the right choice based on the average salary in the country
Come on Ancient BG,
It's not just Bulgarian women -women in general are responsible to assure the offspring will grow in a stable and wealthy surrounding, it's nature. Simply some of them are paying more attention to money. You can see this everywhere around the world, especially in the Western societies _________________ Doggy
I agree that the social Darwinism practiced on planet Earth has to do with the selection of a wealthy husband on part of the women as he is seen more able to provide for the offspring. This is the reason why I prefer BG. Here women may occasionally appreciate you for other qualities as well as money can't play a significant role in the matter due to its frequent absence;)
Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 5:49 am
Post subject: A thought on the matter ...
Hi there,
I have read through this thread and here are the facts as I see them and this is a strictly scientific point of view ... okay my reply is already getting tiresome so I will try to be brief and ... sorry, it is impossible for me to be brief.
I agree with Bulgarin111 who wrote:
"Being different stems attraction, everywhere "
From my experience, males from one country are disproportionately cuter to the women of another country than the males of their homeland. I think we are hardwired for this. I am curious though why it happens more so for the visiting male than the visiting female, probably the family network is stronger for the female in their own "tribe" while the male is pretty much useless. A visiting female isn't as attractive (though, by-gum, I'll argue differently - Yowza)
So ... males leave their tribe, stumble upon a new one (without asking for directions because we can't), and the new tribe's women go cuckoo for their foreign DNA.
Ooooh yes, I am a romantic. But I think a foreign male's DNA has more to do than his pocket-book when it comes to why Bulgarian woman are smitten with foreign men. This applies to every where I have been, not just Bulgaria.
I know it won't make a greeting card sentiment but it is the exchange of new DNA that makes us foreign guys putty in the hands of Bulgarian women and why they are so prone to be attracted to us. Ohh and Bulgarian women are amazing though I don't know if that is my DNA talking but I really couldn't care less.
Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:33 pm
Post subject: Bulgarian Women...a foreigners perspective.
My personal experience of Bulgarian women has been that they are intelligent, passionate, and of a somewhat fiery disposition. I love 'em! but I love my foreign fiancee more,she's Australian, {Hey guys what am I gonna do, she's next to me pointing a Magnum 44. probably THE most powerful handgun in the world, straight at my testicles,,,,Oh jealousy thy name is woman.}
Hey all,
people lighten up!BulgAryan, I am a Bulgarian and even I find your remarks concerning people here (that you know nothing about) insulting.... I mean the negative energy and bitterness generally seems to stem from your posts. You do generalize and you do offend foreigners- be it language gaps or whatever.
Everyone else- people, don't take it so deep, I mean there are people like this in almost all forums I've been member of. The best strategy is to ignore. Sooner or later they would get tired of dripping bitterness. Sorry, BulgAryan, I might be a bit critical commenting on you like that but this is the general impression that you leave (I am sure it is not only me).
Pravilno si razbrala otkude duha viatura, mila. Dali tova shte ti e dostatuchno obache - tova e drug vurpos...
BulgAryan, please don't forget we are in a forum for Expats in Bulgaria. As far as I'm concerned, we should be helpful and friendly - for one, it is us who are on foreign territory writing in an expat forum in BG. Strictly speaking - this forum is not for us, it is for expats to help expats and exchange ideas and info. We are here because we find this interesting, and personally, I'm used to communicating with people all over the world, so why not continue doing that in BG if I can. I appreciate the fact that we, Bulgarians are not unwelcome in this forum.
Also, I've seen resentment and bitterness applied to foreigners when I was away from BG. I must tell you it wasn't directed to me, but I felt for the ones it was directed to as it was very easy for me to imagine myself in their place. It was extremely ugly and showed very bad taste. I think we can show better manners especially when we are not insulted personally. If someone is unhappy with BG, I can understand that perfectly well. I'm happy to be back in my own country, but at the same time I can't help but admit that there's a lot that needs to be done in order to improve everything. Maybe it would be better if we all admitted to what is amiss here and tried to find solutions to these problems rather than tell people where they belong.
Posted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 3:10 pm
Post subject: what about the bulgarian men?
It's interesting for me, in the forum very often we discuss the Bulgarian girls and women. What are you gonna say about the bulgarian men? Do you have any experince with them?Some of mine friends, think, the Bulgarian men aren't gentlemen and don't like to help in the house-work, devided it to male and female work. But I have a friend of mine , married to Bulgarian, they live here in Bg, and of cource they have any cultural and lifestyle's differences, but in generally, look happy. Obviously, there aren't any special limiations in their comunication.
Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 6:18 pm
Post subject: The men here
Hi evelin
Many people expressed their opinion in another post, about Bulgarian men - in the forum, look for it on the portal. I wrote a bit as well. You can have a look over there. Enjoy! Yes, everyone here can observe some cross-cultural couples in Bulgaria. Some couples are happy, some arent't. It's up to the people, either thei match as a couple in life or they don't and keep searching further for their soul mate. _________________ She is
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